Multiple passages in scripture warn us not to “… love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” (1 John 2:15 ESV)
I admittedly have to remind myself of that, especially when I lose something worldly that I love. It could be a material item, a friend’s love and respect, or a freedom I enjoyed (and, yes, took for granted).
Does that mean I can’t (or am forbidden to) mourn the loss?
I’ve lost quite a few things this year, including some of the above. Because I’m not supposed to love anything this world has to offer, I’ve tried to stop myself from mourning those losses.
It has resulted in a lot of stress, anger, and frustration, and no amount of prayer and studying scripture has helped.
Or is it okay to grieve? Are we even capable of letting go of our losses without allowing ourselves that moment of grief?
By fighting my need to grieve, thinking it wrong—if not sinful—am I also preventing God’s comfort? After all, did he not promise to comfort those who mourn (Matthew 5:4)?
Another thing I have to remember is that I can’t lie to God. He knows my struggles and weaknesses better than I do. “Stiffening my upper lip” means nothing to him—except that it gets in the way of what he wants me to learn and grow from.
So, yes, I love things in this world I know I shouldn’t. If I am to let them go, however, I must give myself permission to mourn them. Once I let them go, I can then concentrate on and love the Father and everything not of this world instead.
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Do not feel alone, I have been there and done that. The most important part is that you learn from each experience and grow from it. My battle usually involves my selfishness and my desire to persevere for another day to help more people to deal with their misfortunes. At least, I like to think I have progressed that far in my relationship with God. Now I have to find someway of surviving financially while I try to help were I can. What Fun! Have Faith! God will always come throw for you if you believe in Him!
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