Note: I wrote this back in April, so some of the below will seem a bit dated (showing how quickly things change, especially this year).
“We’re all in this together.”
A while back I saw a YouTube video about how all commercials now sound the same with some of the same platitudes above.
Someone posted on Twitter: “When this is over, the terms ‘Social Distancing,’ and ‘flatten the curve’ need to be abolished from American vernacular forever…”
To which I responded, “I want to rip the lips off everyone who tells me to ‘stay safe,’ or ‘stay healthy.’”
We could blame social media and the prevalence of memes and platforms like Twitter where pith is king, but the tendency to use platitudes didn’t begin there. We’ve been using them forever. For example, how long have people plastered bumper stickers on their vehicles? Over 50 years, I’m certain—at least since the 60s.
That and platitudes seem kind and make sense at first. Because really, should I truly want to rip the lips off someone who’s only expressing concern?
My problem isn’t with short, sometimes legitimately thoughtful phrases. It’s that they stop there. It’s like asking, “how are you?” and at the same time hoping that person doesn’t dive into a ten-minute soliloquy of their terrible, no good, very bad day.
Telling people to stay safe and healthy doesn’t feed their family, give them their job or business back, allow them to visit friends or family—especially those in the hospital or nursing home, and who may end up dying alone without the opportunity to say goodbye.
It doesn’t alleviate their anxiety, hopelessness, and despair.
Really, are these new platitudes any different than telling a parent after a miscarriage that, “You’ll see the baby in heaven,” “It was God’s will,” or “You can always try for another?”
I watched one of Dennis Prager’s Fireside Chats, and one thing he said is that everything we do has a price. One of the problems we’re having now by attempting to “stay safe and healthy” from this virus is we’re ignoring many a devastating price for doing so.
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Andra, in my opinion, all of us who survive this pandemic should feel blessed and thankful and do whatever we can, to help those who have not been or will not be so lucky. All of us need to stop complaining and start doing whatever we can to make iife better for all… particularly for the weakest and poorest among us. Sorry, I just do not see any benefit in complaining about things like this. I would much rather see you use your writing skills, of which God has blessed you with many, to entertain and/or teach us about God’s expectations as we all try our best to live a righteous life. I do not intend this to be mean, like you encouraged us in one of your recent blogs, I just want to say what I believe God would say to us and then let everyone live their life in accord with what they decide is best for them. May you and all your followers have a blessed Christmas this year! I hope this response doesn’t make you want to rip my lips off! LOL